It's a New Year, but, judging by the state of my blog, I am only turning over old leaves. My brain, heart, and life are very full, but not clear and hopeful, which is (maybe) the state which would provoke blogging. I get sick of writing about my same old anxieties, frustrations, and problems, and I imagine that my audience of 3 or 4 might get sick of hearing about them. Lots of nice transitory pleasures have crossed my path over the last few weeks, but the general state of things is pretty much the same. I have had bursts of optimism, during which I recognize how well I am doing. But these are eclipsed by a stronger feeling of "not doing well" that is very persistent and possessing of mutant strength. I have regressed to a feeling that would be very familiar to my young self, to my 20-year-old self, and to many other selves in between. The struggle of my life has been one against my overweening expectations of myself.

I have also realized that, for someone who is a true homebody, I have not done such a great job providing myself with a home. I have moved nearly 30 times in my 31 years, and I am not done yet. This realization exposes a gap between my inner and outer lives that is staggering in its width. I have never been good at figuring out how to make my external life - by which I mean jobs, houses, interactions - complement my inner life. Instead, I seem to try to force my inner self to accept the trappings of some other standard of living. It's a painful inconsistency.

See what I mean about old leaves? I hope they are turning into some good mulch by this point. I feel an urge to post the positives of my life, but that feels almost like a cheat. So many wonderful things happen to me, I do so many good things, I am surrounded and loved by so many good people, but right now these things don't seem to make a dent in my overall unwell-being. And yet...in general, my days pass happily enough. This deep sorrow and dissatisfaction only manifest when I sit still and try to write.